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King in conversation with Berthold Gunster

Dear Mr. Gunster, a few days ago I found your book " Yes-But what if all goes " reviewed. Today I would like this, ask some questions.

Helga King: Do you have the experience made that it is possible that people can go with yes-but-still behavior patterns in later life to a yes-and-behavior, and if so, what this implies?

Berthold Gunster

Berthold Gunster : Yes, it is certainly possible. A personal crisis may be in this respect very "helpful" ... The loss or impending loss of a spouse, the job or an illness often opens the possibility of the priorities in life should be merged.

Helga King : You write that the Germans tend to "Yes, but behavior. Why this is so, it has to do with their history together, or with long existed in Germany to-do authoritarian educational methods that lead to fear and insecurity?

Berthold Gunster : I am cautious. Let's say it this way: in Germany, so is my experience, you tend to see the error faster than the good and punish affirm. 'Make no mistake' is for many a guiding principle. 'Why' this is so is in itself a yes-but question. The why question is often an excuse not to get moving. 'When I first know how this works, then I can change it. As I have described: as-it is the reverse of "Yes, but ....

Helga King

Helga King : Are Dutch mentality of her anxiety-free as German?

Berthold Gunster : Haha ... On average, I think so, yes. But there are just exceptionally fearless German, as well as incredibly anxious, fearful Dutch. You know my mother?

Helga King: Yes, but means stagnation. German managers "yes" and "If - get rates prescribed :-))?

Berthold Gunster : This is a paradoxical question. 'Yes and' prescribe 'and are basically opposites. It's like a woman who tells her husband: "I want you to bring with me from now spontaneously flowers." This command creates a vicious circle immediately. If he brings no flowers as of today it is not good, but when he brings flowers but it is not good, now it's no longer that is spontaneous. So the best would be if managers voluntarily demand for such courses. Or, better yet, even paying for it. Out of pocket ...

Helga King What does it mean when fully expresses 'yes' to a happy life?

Berthold Gunster : That one is immediately in harmony with its environment. Conflicts, stress and tension are to rest, harmony and acceptance.

Helga King What changes in life if you do not call into question his ability?

Berthold Gunster : You focus on its strengths rather than his weaknesses. You start to do to that wherein you feel gifted, capable and clever.

Helga King: Can we learn to listen more to his intuition and what happens when we do this?

Berthold Gunster : Yes. One can learn. Life becomes much easier and you decide incredibly quickly if they frequently on his "gut feeling" heard.

Helga King: A "yes" and "requires courage. Can you train courage, and if so how?

Berthold Gunster : If you look at the realized you only live once, courage is all too logical. If you are not afraid when walking, games and races from time to fall - blue knees are part of life - then courage will grow.

Helga King : people who trust themselves are expected to simple "yes" and "say as insecure people. If the "yes-and-entertainment the sign of a free personality

Berthold Gunster : In short, yes

Helga King . If" Yes, but from conversations and Nörgelsucht the same wood done?

Berthold Gunster

Berthold Gunster : Yes. Those who complain constantly, without being asked survey (!) And employs over to criticize the way things should be, instead of being how things could-and that is a synonym for yes-but.

Dear Mr. Gunster, I thank you from the enlightening interview.

your Helga King

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